Kissing For Men and Women
The Lips Tell All!
Kissing...what is it and
why do women like it? It is the foundation and basics of all
lovemaking. Women enjoy it because it makes them feel special
and he gives them a sense of passion. Men sometimes think of
kissing as little more than an impediment to intercourse.
Unfortunately, guys are grown-up to think that touching, holding,
hugging and kissing are feminine needs and that 'real men' only like
intercourse.
Kissing is
something that we have long forgotten - many people take this for
granted. Naturally, a kiss can be simply a form of greeting,
salutations, or maybe a quick "I love you". But nevertheless,
the kiss should be the passion from the lips. A passionate kiss
can send the right message to your lover. A message that no words can
verbalize or interpret.
It is true that men are
concerned about giving pleasure to their partners, in fact, men are a
lot more sensitive than most women give them credit for. In a
recent study column men and women in long standing marriages or
relationships, sometimes forget how it delicious and meaningful a kiss
can be. When lovers and gradually forget to kiss and touch each
other, except of course when they want sex, touching in kissing seems
more like a job or demand rather than an expression of their love.
A kiss now becomes "I want to have sex now".
Here are some pointers to
make you a better kisser:
Relax - one of the major complaints from women is that the kiss 8
is too tight and tense. Try relaxing your lips and facial
muscles - try to make the kiss smooth and sensuous. With a
little practice, you'll do just fine.
Brush those teeth - many
women did not like kissing because guys didn't brush their teeth and
had bad breath. Bad oral hygiene can be a serious dilemma...
So keep those teeth clean and your breath smelling fresh.
Be
creative - when kissing your partner, pretending you are dancing
(tounge-dancing) and lead the way or let your partner lead the way.
Try kissing slowly then a little faster with different rhythms. With
practice, anyone can be a legendary kisser.
Feel her kiss -
experienced kisser's are sensitive to how their partners are feeling
and are responsive to what they're trying to communicate with their
mouths. Just relax and take a deep breath and try to imagine what she
is feeling when you're kissing her.
Kiss to please - most
importantly when kissing your partner, just let loose and be yourself.
Don't be afraid to express yourself, express how you feel and what
your kiss means. Take your kiss one step further and explore
your partner's body - kiss the arms, hands, fingers, kiss the neck
region, run your lips up and down your partner's legs not forgetting
the toes.
The right
kiss can lead you to a better kiss ; )
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