Foreplay
Forget This and You're
out!
The problem of sex today
is that many men forget or do not know want to participate in
foreplay. Foreplay, believe it or not, is one of the most important
factors in sex according to women, not orgasm, as men believe.
In recent studies, 75
percent of men are finished with sex within a few minutes - sound
familiar? Women need at least 15 minutes of stimulation before they
can reach climax to orgasm. See the problem? So what can be done about
this? The answer my friend is foreplay. If you spend as much time with
foreplay as you do with thinking of sexual intercourse you will please
your gal a great deal and probably won't fake an orgasm. Foreplay is
everything from touching, kissing, caressing, skin flick viewing,
talking dirty to massaging and should last according to a recent
study, approximately 20 minutes or more. Women who have had foreplay
for this length of time failed to reach orgasm only 7.7 percent of the
time! Compare that to your own a statistics and maybe you want to
learn about foreplay. Want so more proof that women want foreplay?
When asked to women, "What part of your relationship would you want
your partner to pay more attention to", over 65 percent of women said
foreplay and only 4 percent said orgasm.
Here Are Some Examples
of Foreplay...
The surprise element
- when you come home from
work... slowly sneak into the house and grab her from behind and
slowly undressed her. When the both of you are watching TV, reach over
to her and begin massaging her while whispering dirty nothings to her.
Remember to take your time - the more time you take the better her
orgasm.
Talk dirty to her
- as we mentioned on our page "talking
dirty", those sexy poetic words can get anybody's juices flowing and
in the mood for some heart pounding sex. Try this, as you are touching
or massaging her go ahead and whisper in her ear and tell her what you
want to do to her or what she could do to you. Remember these are your
words make it real.
Touch body parts
- probably the best form of foreplay is
touching, kissing, and caressing. Do this for 20 minutes and you'll
have your woman crawling on the walls! You can find a great selection
of massage books at your local store. Get yourself some oil and a
massage manual and go to town on your woman... She'll love you for it.
Or try this one on for size - when your both lying in bed, just run
your fingers lightly over her body touching every part of her. Use
other parts of your body to stimulate her body while you're kissing
her, but just be careful, she might not be able to take it anymore and
jump you when you least suspect it!
Be creative
- just about anything that relates
to sexual enjoyment without actually being intercourse, can be
considered a form of foreplay. The key to great foreplay is knowing
what she likes or he likes, whichever the case may be. How do you know
what he or she likes? Simply ask - do forget good communication is key
to a great sexual relationship. Once you find this out then all you
have to do is explore and be creative. Take your time with foreplay,
there is no rush, intercourse can wait. Once you have achieved
the art of foreplay, only then can you really take her to heaven.
Master this and she'll never forget it! |
